Luck and destiny these are the words in what I have never believed. Luck I still don’t believe in that word. But destiny It is all what I believe in.. I have gone through worst period in life.. and the same way I have also seen the best time in the life. When there was a time I was not enough Mature to understands the things. At that time whenever anything happened bad I just use to think that life is over now. Nothing good can happen in life.. Everything just finished. It’s all the pain what I am going to have with me my entire life. Nothing was good in life. I have lost all the hopes. Did such foolish things in life for people for whom I care.. But this world doesn’t let you live the life you want. It’s really the world full of selfish people. Who use other people to achieve their motives. Use people for their own good and need.Finally I am like.. Strong enough.. I cannot do anything wrong with people and at the same time time I do not allow people to do anything wrong with me. So let me come to my point.
Destiny.. once there was a time I thought that everything just got finished. And now is the time when I think if those things would have never happened in life I would have not get these happiness in my life. Was a bright student in school life, But when the question comes, when my career was depended on result. I have got very bad result. Had waited one year.. and after that I just switched to the line form science to computers. Got very bad experiences in life but things makes me strong , practical. All the things makes me mature. Enough capable to understand things and to handle them.
And when the thing comes to the important question of life. Life partner. I have got the best loving person in life who takes care in all the manner. Love me. Give all the happiness in life. Yes my family was always there to support.. But still I have best person in life. When I look back in life. What was it. Why I had gone through all the things.. Just to meet this person? And I really have no answer for this. But I still believe It’s a destiny.
Everything happens for a reason. If I wouldn’t have gone the worst result and waited for one year. And if I would have taken admission in any engineering may be I would have never met this person in life. People use to say “Jodiyaan to uparvala banata he” .. I still wonder if its true. Magic world and its magic tricks..
So I think God has decided everyone’s destiny. We always have to go through what is in our destiny. Today I am happy that I have all that pain. So I have the perfect life now. May be not perfect in all the manner. But it’s still have its own motive. Now bad things doesn’t make me depress or upset. Because har andheri rat k bad nayi kiran ak ummid le ke aati he..Yup still have question that career not settled.. Still not able to fulfill the responsibility. But how ever I try will not get more or less than my destiny have for me. So hope for the best.. Enjoy every moment of life. Do not get upset when times not good. Everything has its own reason. And someday sometime you will realize that if that thing wouldn't have happened with you .. You could have never get this thing in life.
Even All people who comes to our life they all have their roles defined. No matter the person is good or bad. Bad things always gives us the experience to handle the things . And good things also. Everything gives us experience. People come and go from the life. When I think about my life’s people .. It’s like if bad people had never came to my life I would have never experienced things this way. And id I wouldn't have then it’s like I couldn't welcome good things or never understand its real value.
People use to say na that if u haven’t gone through worst you will never understand the true value of good things. If you have not felt the pain you will not understand the meaning of happiness. we respect things because we know the meaning of it's absence. We respect good things because we know the difference between good and bad.
We always use to think that we do not have things like this and this. And get upset for that. But my dad always use to say if you want to know what you have do not compare yourself with the one who has all the things and comfort of this world but compare yourself with the one who has nothing in life but still live life fully. And you will thank God for what you have. So never regret for anything. And when you want to achieve something in life at that time compare yourself with the one who have it. So you can work hard can achieve that thing in life. Its all what we need to do in life.. No regrets for the things we do not have. Still live life fully and achieve the good things in life.. Good or bad all what is defined in our destiny. So always keep smiling :)
The main confrontation perhaps comes between destiny and deeds. Whether it was our sheer luck which had reached us to a situation or it was our deed which took us to that situation and the fight continues. If we refer to Lord Sri Krishna, the beauty of him lies in one sentence perhaps, "keep doing your work." So even he referred to deeds rather than believing in destiny factor. Sometimes this thought makes me feel little confused and then when I look at the deed factor then I figure out perhaps our deeds lead to our destinies. If I would not have driven fast this morning while coming to office, I could have avoided the accident; so basically my deed of driving fast led to the accident and it is a situation which I could have avoided through my deed. Wonderful topic that you wrote on Kinjal, the argument goes on and we all try and live a life which at times is beautiful.
ReplyDelete:)yeah the argument goes on..:)
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